Thursday, October 4, 2007

the crushed part of our lives....

Some people are going to find this post a bit weird as it does not match with my general perception... I am actually the one who tries to stay away from all these fundas... But, i dont know, this has just cropped up in my mind and so, i thought of writing something on it....
A crush... Well, we all have had crushes at some time of our lives.... Its like this awesome feeling... A feeling that we've all experienced and want to have more of it... I personally had a crush on almost every single girl I know at some point of my life or the other.... And i feel its actually good... It helped me discover the charm in all those girls' personality.... And with these experiences i've, actually, come up with a philososphy... Different girls have got a different charms but still they boil down to a few categories...
Like, First of all, there are those beautiful girls, on seeing whom u always think that they are the prettiest faces in the galaxy.... All of us have developed a crush on atleast one of these type girls... Its later that we realize, that a pretty face is not enough... And most of them turn out to be really dumb....
After that, there are these really nice girls who talk very nicely to you and are liked by everybody and take care of the people around and do all the "NICE" things.... We all start thinking that these type of girls are perfect... But, actually, sometimes too nice becomes too bad.... We also want a bad side(a wild side rather!!) in our chic... As they say, good girls go to heaven, bad girls go everywhere...
And then, there are those flirting types.... U know, girls who fool around a lot and flirt with you
all the time... We all think that she likes us... That she might be having a crush on us... And, just to reciprocate it, we develop a crush on them... And, one day all are dreams are thrashed when we see her flirting with our best friend... The once angel now becomes a s**t... But, its not her fault... Its in her nature..... Its her way of talking to people... And she is not every time a s**t...
Then, there are those cool chics.... These girls have very particular characteristics... They listen to cool music, play sports(usually not a girly one), wear clothes that are not meant to attract boys all the time, have very few(in some cases, none) girl friends and stuff like that.... Basically, these girls do what they like to do and dont care about the rest of the world... Most of the time, they are not accepted in the girly world.... Thats what makes them so special... They have got some kind of a oomph, that attracts us to them... But, later we realize that we actually like our women HOT rather than COOL...
And, there are chics with whom, u think, you have a cosmic connection or sumthing... Finally, a girl with whom u can discuss cricket or your playstations and even play computer games... Girls to whom we can tell all our feelings and always expect a support from them... These girls sometimes make you believe very strongly that you are in love with them... But, generally that is not the case... We start finding our life partner in a discussion partner.... But, we should understand that she is a person with whom we can talk things but cant get romantic... These girls, however, later prove to be very good friends....
And finally, of course, there are chics with big b**bs....
So, that was about the categorization of the girls you can have a crush on... No matter which one is your current crush, its a new feeling for every other girl.... And, ya a crush is nothing more than just a happy, nice and pleasent feeling... Its a lot different than the feeling of love... A crush is never that serious.... When u have a crush on somebody, it doesnt mater to you if the other person doesnt know about it... But, when you are in love, its always related to long term commitment... U want the person, whom u love, to know about it... U want to be with her all the time... But, when u have a crush on sumone, u just feel good when the person is around you... It feels good to talk to her.... U think about her all the time... But, when you are in love, u cant get her out of your head.... And i personally feel that a crush is a much better and healthier feeling than love... Love most of the time has serious consequences on your life.. While a crush never does that... Its just a harmless and innocent feeling... Thats what a crush is....
So, this was about my funda of "CRUSH"... Some of you might agree with it... Some of you may not... But, this is what i think.... This post has already been a very long one, so, i better stop...

4 comments:

nitin gupta said...

a bit interesting ..so u had a crush..never told!!
nyway i like the way u differentiate between love and crush..on the basis of pleasure..
but u didnt mention ur love..
specify girls to whom u have made a part of ur terrifying blog..

kush said...

had a doubt...is this blog meant for female readers too???coz it sure doesnt seem like it...

rishabh goel said...

@nippi... dude plz dont get me started on that.... u know how i feel about alll these things...
@kush ya.. i sort of wrote just my perspective.. so it is actually not meant for female readers... unless, u know, they want to know how boys think...

SHUBHAM said...

@rishabh
i 've experienced love as well as chrushes
and i believe some of the thins u 've mentioned are right,but not going into that discussion ,i wud just say that
'a girl and a boy can never be just friends'*

*unless the girl is a lesbo and boy is a gay

if u have contradictions then we' lldiscuss later